Showing posts with label 5 love languages. Show all posts
Showing posts with label 5 love languages. Show all posts

Wednesday, June 4, 2008

I Had So Much Peace Within Me





Hi all many thanks for your synchronized prayers and my operation went thru vy smoothly. This is the first time i had so much peace within me as compared to my normal self who will sob or start getting worried days and weeks before operation date.

As i have told a few of you when i return from Singapore I had not been feeling good and each time when i get up from bed i wl have bad dizzy and what worried me was if i can't balance myself on the bed and should i fall and hit against any hard object i may have head concussion or become a........ arh...you all know, I went to consult my specialist thinking the lump could be affecting me but to my surprise my doctor the lump is not a cause for my dizzy. I was rather disturbed, so i decided to tell my abba father to package the whole thing so that when the lump is remove my dizzy will also be gone as what audrey prayed for me 'one stroke' and it will be gone. I do feel that it is improving after my operation and wl just have a positive attitude to allow God heals me totally in his time.

I have just been discharged and just want to spent some time writing to you all to update you of myself. My thanks to kitchan, gemma, audrey and alice for visiting me even though it was raining 'black/yellow' yesterday. They were indeed very supportive. My thanks also to those who wanted to come but could not make it because you all have been praying hard for me. To summarise, i thank this homegroup for the support in all ways. thank you

Well time to rest as doctor said my lump was quite big.

Don't have to worry about me i am well and don't have to make special trips to visit me as i think i can make it this friday.

To tell you all the truth, the only thoughts on my mind at the hospital bed was 'what can i offer you all this friday''' ha..ha... well, will share more when we meet.

Friday, December 7, 2007

5 Love Languages

I was assigned to facilitate the topic about "5 Love Languages" by Gary Chapman in our homegroup today.

In case you don't know what this "5 Love Languages" is all about, here they are :
a) Words of affirmation
b) Quality time
c) Receiving gifts
d) Physical touch
e) Acts of service

As quoted by Gary Chapman in his book : "The 5 Love Languages" --- Once you identify and learn to speak your spouse's primary love language, I believe that you will have discovered the key to a long-lasting, loving marriage Love need not evaporate after the wedding, but inorder to keep it alive most of us will have to put forth the effort to learn a secondary love language. We cannot reply on our native tongue if our spouse does not understand it. If we want him/her to feel the love we are trying to communicate, we must express it in his or her primary love language.



If you have any successful appplication of the 5 love languages in your life, we are more than happy to hear from you !