Sunday, December 21, 2008

John 3:16


A little boy was selling newspapers on the corner, the people were in and out of the cold.

The little boy was so cold that he wasn't trying to sell many papers.

He walked up to a policeman and said, 'Mister, you wouldn't happen to know where a poor boy could find a warm place to sleep tonight would you ?

You see, I sleep in a box up around the corner there and down the alley and it's awful cold in there for tonight.

Sure would be nice to have a warm place to stay.'

The policeman looked down at the little boy and said, 'You go down the street to that big white house and you knock on the door. When they come out the door you just say John 3:16, and they will let you in.'

So he did. He walked up the steps and knocked on the door, and a lady answered. He looked up and said, 'John 3:16 .' The lady said, 'Come on in, Son.'

She took him in and she sat him down in a split bottom rocker in front of a great big old fireplace, and she went off. The boy sat there for a while and thought to himself: John 3:16...I don't understand it, but it sure makes a cold boy warm.

Later she came back and asked him 'Are you hungry ? ' He said, 'Well, just a little. I haven't eaten in a couple of days, and I guess I could stand a little bit of food,'

The lady took him in the kitchen and sat him down to a table full of wonderful food. He ate and ate until he couldn't eat any more. Then he thought to himself : John 3:16 ...Boy, I sure don't understand it but it sure makes a hungry boy full.

She took him upstairs to a bathroom to a huge bathtub filled with warm water, and he sat there and soaked for a while. As he soaked, he thought to himself: John 3:16 .. I sure don't understand it, but it sure makes a dirty boy clean. You know, I've not had a bath, a real bath, in my whole life. The only bath I ever had was when I stood in front of that big old fire hydrant as they flushed it out. The lady came in and got him. She took him to a room, tucked him into a big old feather bed, pulled the covers up around his neck, kissed him goodnight and turned out the lights. As he lay in the darkness and looked out the window at the snow coming down on that cold night, he thought to himself: John 3:16 ...I don't understand it but it sure makes a tired boy rested.

The next morning the lady came back up and took him down again to that same big table full of food.. After he ate, she took him back to that same big old split bottom rocker in front of the fireplace and picked up a big old Bible.

She sat down in front of him and looked into his young face. 'Do you understand John 3:16 ? ' she asked gently. He replied, 'No, Ma'am, I don't. The first time I ever heard it was last night when the policeman told me to use it,' She opened the Bible to John 3:16 and began to explain to him about Jesus . Right there, in front of that big old fireplace, he gave his heart and life to Jesus. He sat there and thought: John 3:16 -- don't understand it, but it sure makes a lost boy feel safe.

You know, I have to confess I don't understand it either, how God was willing to send His Son to die for me, and how Jesus would agree to do such a thing. I don't understand the agony of the Father and every angel in heaven as they watched Jesus suffer and die. I don't understand the intense love for ME that kept Jesus on the cross till the end. I don't understand it, but it sure does make life worth living.

John 3:16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.


Wednesday, December 10, 2008

Do you know who you are in Christ ?

I am God's child (John 1:12)
I am Christ's friend (John 15:15 )
I am united with the Lord (1 Cor. 6:17)
I am bought with a price (1 Cor 6:19-20)
I am a saint (set apart for God). (Eph. 1:1)
I am a personal witness of Christ. (Acts 1:8)
I am the salt & light of the earth (Matt 5:13-14)
I am a member of the body of Christ (1 Cor 12:27)
I am free forever from condemnation ( Rom. 8: 1-2)
I am a citizen of Heaven. I am significant (Phil 3:20)
I am free from any charge against me (Rom. 8:31 -34)
I am a minister of reconciliation for God (2 Cor 5:17-21)
I have access to God through the Holy Spirit (Eph. 2:18)
I am seated with Christ in the heavenly realms (Eph. 2:6)
I cannot be separated from the love of God (Rom 8:35-39)
I am established, anointed, sealed by God (2 Cor 1:21-22 )
I am assured all things work together for good (Rom. 8:28 )
I have been chosen and appointed to bear fruit (John 15:16 )
I may approach God with freedom and confidence (Eph. 3: 12 )
I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me (Phil. 4:13)
I am the branch of the true vine, a channel of His life (John 15: 1-5)
I am God's temple (1 Cor. 3: 16). I am complete in Christ (Col. 2: 10)
I am hidden with Christ in God (Col. 3:3). I have been justified (Romans 5:1)
I am God's co-worker (1 Cor. 3:9; 2 Cor 6:1). I am God's workmanship (Eph. 2:10)
I am confident that the good works God has begun in me will be perfected. (Phil. 1: 5)
I have been redeemed and forgive n (Col 1:14). I have been adopted as God's child (Eph 1:5)

I belong to God

Do you know who you are?

Sunday, December 7, 2008

Monday, November 3, 2008

Complete by Parachute Band

Another beautiful song for our homegroup worship, enjoy!

Monday, September 15, 2008

The Ten Commandments For Those Over 40 Yrs Old

1. Focus on enjoying people , not on indulging in or accumulating material things.

2. Plan to spend whatever you have saved. You deserve to enjoy it and the few healthy years you have left.

Travel if you can afford it. Don't leave anything for your children or loved ones to quarrel about. By leaving anything, you may even cause more trouble when you are gone.

3. Live in the here and now, not in the yesterdays and tomorrows. It is
only today that you can handle.Yesterday is gone, tomorrow may not even happen.

4. Enjoy your grandchildren (if you are blessed with any) but don't be
their full time baby sitter. You have no moral obligation to take care of them. Don't have any guilt about

refusing to baby sit anyone's kids, including your own grandkids.

Your parental obligation is to your children. After you have raised them into responsible adults, your duties of child-rearing and babysitting are finished. Let your children raise their own off-springs.

5. Accept physical weakness, sickness and other physical pains. It is a
part of the aging process . Enjoy whatever your health can allow.

6. Enjoy what you are and what you have right now. Stop working hard for
what you do not have. If you do not have them, it's
probably too late.

7. Just enjoy your life with your spouse, children, grandchildren and
friends. People, who truly love you, love you for yourself, not for what you have. Anyone who loves you for what you have will just give you misery.

8. Forgive and accept forgiveness. Forgive yourself and others. Enjoy peace
of mind and peace of soul.

9. Befriend death. It's a natural part of
the life cycle.

Don't be afraid of it. Death is the beginning of a new and better
life
, so, prepare yourself not for death but for a new life with the Almighty.

10. Be at peace with your Creator ...For... He is all you have after you
leave this life.

GOD is too wise to be mistaken...
GOD is too good to be unkind...
so when you don
't understand..
when you don
't see HIS plan...
when you can't trace HIS hand...
HAVE FAITH AND TRUST HIS HEART

Thursday, August 28, 2008

Greeting from Vernon (Shanghai)



It has been a while since I last drop you a mail. Thanks for all the news.

I do read it and keep abreast of all my friends in HK.
How have you been? I hope you are well and that despite your busy schedule, you are happy where you are.

I have been busy too. This job is rather challenging but I do enjoy it.
I am learning things, seeing things moving forward and more importantly, my Chinese has improved tremendously (by my own standards of course). I have even started writing emails in Chinese (15-20%) : )

My travel schedule is less hectic but I have seen it increasing with time as we start operations in more cities. Currently only focusing on 5 out of 34

I was in BJ last week and did meet with Wee Yeat and Serene. Seems that they are doing fine as well. Attached a photo of Uncle Vernon and Baby Isaac.

I even managed to catch an Olympics event (Track and Field last Friday) and was even on TV!!! (Yeah my wife saw me)
Family is doing well. Kids have just started school much to the relief of mommy. We went back early August (and stayed for National Day), great break for us. Will be back again for Christmas

I will try and plan a trip down to SZ one of these (we have some work going with Shenzhen Dev Bank) and will try and nip down for dinner with you guys if time permits.

Do keep me on the email list. : )


Wednesday, August 20, 2008

Wa.......h......... finally !!!




Dear friends,
Thank you all for interceding on behalf of my family. Finally at 1.10pm Aug.19,2008 baby JULIEN was born and weighs 3.2 kg.

The whole process was fast because Sarah went thru caesarian as her water bags leaks on midnight around 3am. Both mum and son are well. Initially, when i first see JULIEN he was jus a chip of his mum Sarah but can you imagine over time and within one day his looks started changing. Julien is really cute and adorable and you can't help but to fall in love with him which we all have!

34 years ago i gave birth to Mark and yesterday my mind was 'renewed" and i began to see lots more and jus felt the awesomeness of God. My own delivery 'journey' was quite a tiresome one all it's my heart's desire that i wanted a boy so much jus to appease my "business" in-laws as in those days (maybe today still applicable) by having that you are a step closer to them. My 'nightmare' was when both my gynae and a mid-wife who attended to me just tell me i am to deliver a girl! wah......anyway story too long to continue. Yesterday's experience was so different long before Julien was born i already knew its a boy and the amazing thing was here you see Sarah and her big stomach i believe all of us are more excited now in how the baby looks like, wah thanks to God given technology, just within few hrs you not only can see the baby but we are so priviledge that we can actually physically hold the baby!!!

During my short conversation with Mark we now see how great God his, how he single handedly crafted/knitted each one of us in our mother's womb
and so detailly done with everything so intact. Just a joke yah as i was praying with wai kuan i gently reminded God to add his last touch to Julien(still within god's 6 days of creation) lest he forgets and after 1.20pm yesterday was God's 7th day(completion) where he sit back to relaxed at his own creation and that is BABY JULIEN....Well, to me and my whole family all i can say is God himself is very pleased with his finished work.

All i can sum up about God for this entire creation is the lyrics of the song "I STAND IN AWE OF YOU" and may i just type out a few lines to give praise and honour to God almighty.

YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL BEYOND DESCRIPTION
TOO MARVELOUS FOR WORDS
TOO WONDERFUL FOR COMPREHENSION
LIKE NOTHING EVER SEEN OR HEARD
HO CAN GRASP YOUR INFINITE WISDOM
WHO CAN FATHOM THE DEPTHS OF YOUR LOVE

and truly i must say i really stand in awe of God as he even called my grandson by names 'JULIEN"

Thank you all for reading this long mail and hope too you are will stand in awe of god too for how intricately and beautifully you too was made.

Love,
grandma Sharon

Tuesday, July 22, 2008

Wednesday, July 16, 2008

Homegroup visit to Old Folk's Home in Kowloon Tong





As the evergreens walked into the hall of the Grace Oldfolks’ Home, members of the homegroup stood near to lead them to their seats. Some walked gingerly, others were more mobile and a few had to be wheelchaired in. We were excited to be there on the day the Lord had made and to reach out to touch them in every way we could.

Homegroup coordinator - Jackson Kwan prayed the opening prayer. He blessed the residents with health, peace and joy in the Lord Jesus.

"We are here to bring you Hope. Our God wants to minister to both your physical and spiritual needs".

Soon there was a sing-along session of Cantonese worship songs, and all the elderly aunties and uncles joined in, making music with their castanets and hand-claps. The whole room came alive with much singing and rejoicing as we invited Jesus to come into our midst and be with us. In moments like this, loneliness had to go! Sicknesses had to go! Hopelessness had to go too! One evergreen said she liked the last song so we sang her favourite song again………………

Then it was time for a game on ‘pass-the-vegetable-and-guess-what-it-is?’ All vegetables were placed in plastic bags and when you guessed right, you’d get a prize! Guess how many evergreens got a prize? Six in total!

Following that, a mum to one of our homegroup members gave her testimony. Mdm Wong Wai Yee shared on being ‘accident-prone’, losing her balance and falling at home and on the streets. But that changed when she accepted Jesus as her God and Helper. From that day on, she could miraculously walk and not fall, and when she did fall once head-on on a busy road, she wasn’t hurt! “Thank God. My Jesus looks after me.”

Next Pastor Morris went onto the stage and shared on God’s love to everyone. “Whoever you are, God loves you and sends his son to die on the cross for you.” He went on to say that when you have Jesus, you have life and life after. “Call on Jesus and he will help you. Talk to him and he hears you. He is a good God.” He also shared that his mum, same age as some of the evergreens present, asked Jesus to help her in her old age and to heal her of an illness. Time and time again Jesus answered her prayers and helped her to bear her pain. Later pastor prayed for salvation for everyone present.

The rest of the afternoon was spent sharing with and listening to the aunties and uncles. It was indeed an eventful time with each of us leaving them with the hope that “God is near.”

Thursday, June 5, 2008

ICA LeaderShip Seminar







Dinner with Wai Kuan's Family in North Point






Husband For Sale


A store that sells husbands has just opened in New York City, where a woman may go to choose a husband. Among the instructions at the entrance is a description of how the store operates. You may visit the store ONLY ONCE ! There are six floors and the attributes of the men increase as the shopper ascends the flights. There is, however, a catcha you may choose any man from a particular floor, or you may choose to go up a floor, but you cannot go back down except to exit the building! So, a woman goes to the Husband Store to find a husband...

On the first floor the sign on the door reads:

Floor 1 - These men have jobs and love the Lord.

The second floor sign reads:

Floor 2 - These men have jobs, love the Lord, and love kids.

The third floor sign reads:

Floor 3 - These men have jobs, love the Lord, love kids, and are extremely good looking.

"Wow," she thinks, but feels compelled to keep going. She goes to the fourth floor and sign reads:

Floor 4 - These men have jobs, love the Lord, love kids, are drop-dead good looking and help with the housework.

"Oh, mercy me!" she exclaims, "I can hardly stand it!"

Still, she goes to the fifth floor and sign reads:

Floor 5 - These men have jobs, love the Lord, love kids, are drop- dead gorgeous, help with the housework, and have a strong romantic streak.

She is so tempted to stay, but she goes to the sixth floor and the sign reads:

Floor 6 - You are visitor 4,363,012 to this floor. There are no men on this floor. This floor exists solely as proof that women are impossible to please.

Thank you for shopping at the Husband Store. Watch your step as you exit the building, and have a nice day!

Please feel free to send this message to all men for a good laugh and to all the women who can handle the truth!

Remember Greed is one of the seven deadly sins. You have to learn to be grateful for what you have to get more. When you are ungrateful you end up with nothing.


Wednesday, June 4, 2008

I Had So Much Peace Within Me





Hi all many thanks for your synchronized prayers and my operation went thru vy smoothly. This is the first time i had so much peace within me as compared to my normal self who will sob or start getting worried days and weeks before operation date.

As i have told a few of you when i return from Singapore I had not been feeling good and each time when i get up from bed i wl have bad dizzy and what worried me was if i can't balance myself on the bed and should i fall and hit against any hard object i may have head concussion or become a........ arh...you all know, I went to consult my specialist thinking the lump could be affecting me but to my surprise my doctor the lump is not a cause for my dizzy. I was rather disturbed, so i decided to tell my abba father to package the whole thing so that when the lump is remove my dizzy will also be gone as what audrey prayed for me 'one stroke' and it will be gone. I do feel that it is improving after my operation and wl just have a positive attitude to allow God heals me totally in his time.

I have just been discharged and just want to spent some time writing to you all to update you of myself. My thanks to kitchan, gemma, audrey and alice for visiting me even though it was raining 'black/yellow' yesterday. They were indeed very supportive. My thanks also to those who wanted to come but could not make it because you all have been praying hard for me. To summarise, i thank this homegroup for the support in all ways. thank you

Well time to rest as doctor said my lump was quite big.

Don't have to worry about me i am well and don't have to make special trips to visit me as i think i can make it this friday.

To tell you all the truth, the only thoughts on my mind at the hospital bed was 'what can i offer you all this friday''' ha..ha... well, will share more when we meet.

Tuesday, April 29, 2008

4 Things That You Cannot Recover

The stone after the throw
The word after it's said
The occasion after the loss
The time after it's gone





















Monday, April 28, 2008

Water Baptism - April 27,2008


April 27,2008 marks a special day to our Vantage@Belcher's homegroup. We thank God for some of our brothers and sisters who took the bold step of faith to join the recent water baptism.

This is what the participant share during the water baptism :

1) Jerald Lim Xuan Zheng (Agnes Ho's son)
Although I have accepted Christ at a young age, I only grew closer to God recently. Whenever I call upon Him, He answers me. I have decided to follow Him for the rest of my life.

2) Joey Lim Qian Ru (Agnes Ho's daughter)
I am glad that I have Jesus in my life. he is the source of my strength. I will follow Him for the rest of my life.

3) Annie Ho Poh Kooi (Agnes Ho's mom)
I have accepted Jesus as my Savior. He has cleansed me of all my sins. I love Him with all my heart. Thank you, Jesus.

4) Gina Catabay (Agnes Ho's helper)
My faith was like a roller coaster. Sometimes it was up, sometimes it was down. It was until I receive Jesus as my Lord and Savior that I felt totally free from my previous religion. Praise God ! I am so happy that I have decided to obey his command to be baptized.

5) Kit Chan
I used to rationalise a lot about what had happened in my life and relied on my own understanding but often found that my answers were incomplete. Thanks to the Lord for sending Jesus to redeem my sins, I have found a new definition in life. Instead of struggling on my own, God has called for a child-like faith and obedience in Him. The Word of God is my assurance, comfort and hope and my guide always.

6) Joan Xu Jiong
Before knowing God, I was a wilful child and full of anxiety. God allowed me to be peaceful and faithful in the face of circumstances and has planted in me a seed of humility. It is beautiful to know God. I choose Jesus as my personal savior.


Thursday, April 17, 2008

God's Truths

God's Truth - verses that you can called when minister to people or yourself in difficult situations

When in sorrow ---- John 14
When men fail you ---- Psalm 27
When you worry ---- Matthew 6:25 - 34
When God seems far away --- Psalm 139
When in danger ---- Psalm 91
When your faith needs stirring ---- Hebrews 11
When you are lonely and fearful ---- Psalm 23
When you grow bitter and critical ---- 1 Corinthians 13
When you are anxious ---- Philippians 4: 6-7
When you need patience for God's direction - Psalm37
When you need forgiveness of sins ---- Romans 4:7-8, I John 1:9, Colossians 2:14
When you are treated unfairly ---- 1 Peter 2:18
When you need the Lord as your refuge ---- Psalms 91 : 1-11
When you are in difficult situation ---- Psalms 124 : 5-8
When you are weak ---- 2 Corinthians 12
When you are suffering ---- 1 Peter 2 : 28
When you need to renew your strength ---- Isaiah 40:31
When you need God's armor ---- Ephesians 6: 10-18
When you need Lord as your rock of salvation ---- Psalms 6: 1-2


If you have more verses to share, please add to the list. God' words are the most powerful words.

Food for thought : Are you coffee ?

You will never look at a cup of coffee the same way again.

A young woman went to her mother and told her about her life and
how things were so hard for her. She did not know how she was
going to make it and wanted to give up. She was tired of fighting
and struggling. It seemed as one problem was solved, a new one arose.

Her mother took her to the kitchen. She filled three pots with water
and placed each on a high fire soon the pots came to boil. In the
first she placed carrots, in the second she placed eggs, and in the
last she placed ground coffee beans. She let them sit and boil; without
saying a word.

In about twenty minutes she turned off the burners. She fished the
carrots out and placed them in a bowl. She pulled the eggs out and
placed them in a bowl.

Then she ladled the coffee out and placed it in a bowl. Turning to her
daughter, she asked, 'Tell me what you see.' 'Carrots, eggs, and
coffee,' she replied.

Her mother brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots. She
did and noted that they were soft. The mother then asked the
daughter to take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she
observed the hard boiled egg.

Finally, the mother asked the daughter to sip the coffee. The daughter
smiled as she tasted its rich aroma the daughter then asked, 'What
does it mean, mother?'

Her mother explained that each of these objects had faced the same
adversity: boiling water. Each reacted differently. The carrot went in
strong, hard, and unrelenting. However, after being subjected to the
boiling water, it softened and became weak. The egg had been fragile.
Its thin outer shell had protected its liquid interior, but after
sitting through the boiling water, its inside became hardened. The
ground coffee beans were unique, however. After they were in the
boiling water, they had changed the water.

'Which are you?' she asked her daughter. 'When adversity knocks on
your door, how do you respond? Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee
bean?

Think of this: Which am I? Am I the carrot that seems strong, but with
pain and adversity do I wilt and become soft and lose my strength?

Am I the egg that starts with a malleable heart, but changes with the
heat? Did I have a fluid spirit, but after a death, a breakup, a
financial hardship or some other trial, have I become hardened and
stiff? Does my shell look the same, but on the inside am I bitter and
tough with a stiff spirit and hardened heart?

Or am I like the coffee bean? The bean actually changes the hot water,
the very circumstance that brings the pain. When the water gets hot, it
releases the fragrance and flavor. If you are like the bean, when
things are at their worst, you get better and change the situation
around you.

When the hour is the darkest and trials are their greatest, do you
elevate yourself to another level? How do you handle adversity? Are
you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean?

May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to
make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human and enough hope
to make you happy.

The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything;
they just make the most of everything that comes along their way. The
brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past; you can't
go forward in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.

When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was
smiling. Live your life so at the end, you're the one who is smiling
and everyone around you is crying.

You might want to send this message to those people who mean
something to you (I JUST DID); to those who have touched your life
in one way or another; to those who make you smile when you really
need it; to those who make you see the brighter side of things when
you are really down; to those whose friendship you appreciate; to
those who are so meaningful in your life.

It's easier to build a child than repair an adult. This is so true.

May we all be COFFEE?

Wednesday, April 16, 2008

ICA Family Retreat at Gold Coast

Last Apr.3-5, 2008, about 400+ brothers and sisters attended the ICA family retreat at Gold Coast.

Few Vantage@Belcher's members joined this event including Eng Hwee, Kit Chan, Ivy Boey, Manny Urquico, Agnes Fung and the whole family of Agnes Ho. It's encouraging to see Peck Yoke and Eugene come to join us from Macau.

This 3 days 2 nights gathering at Gold Coast is filled not only in spiritual food but also in physical food as well. A lot of sisters benefit from the teaching of Pastor Lee Chew about the role of a woman. See some of the powerpoint slides below or you may want to buy a CD in ICA church to know more about the role of a woman that God wants us to play in life.